by Megan | May 2, 2026 | AAC, aided language input, aided language stimulation, blog, books, continuing education, core vocabulary, emergent literacy, fringe vocabulary, modeling, Sensory, tips, training
“Are We Doing This Wrong?”
We’ve all been there. You have planned and prepped an engaging shared reading lesson and activity, and as soon as you start, you feel like you have failed. The child won’t look at the book, they walk away, they don’t imitate your models on their device, nothing.
I took the time to plan this lesson, and they aren’t even interested? Maybe I should stop trying shared reading.
WAIT! Before you let that false thought take over, think about this. Who said that kids have to sit still during reading? Why is that something we look for to prove attention? Do you always sit still and “look” like you are paying attention when you are listening? My guess is, especially if you are like me, the answer is “no”.
There are unwritten and unspoken (and unproven) “rules” out there telling us what shared reading “should” look like or what a successful lesson “looks” like, but I’m here to bust these myths, shoulds, and rules. I’m going to bust five of the most common myths about shared reading and help us all focus on what matters most: connection.
The 5 Myths
- Myth #1: The “Sitting Still” Requirement
- Truth: Movement is sensory regulation and often helps neurodivergent learners process information.
- Remember: If they are in the room, they are participating. Focus on the connection instead of the movement. We took a deep dive into why movement is so important in our Sensory Supports guide.
- Myth #2: The “Adapted Book” Necessity
- Truth: AAC devices provide the symbols; books provide the stories.
- Remember: Don’t limit their library to books with icons. All books are fair game for shared reading.
- Myth #3: The “Reading as a Test” Habit
- Truth: Questions create pressure; comments create conversation.
- Remember: Switch from “What’s that?” to “I love that part!” When we focus on creating connection, we decrease pressure and increase engagement. If you aren’t sure what to say instead of a question, check out my post on What to Model During Shared Reading
- Myth #4: The “Prerequisite Skills” Barrier
- Truth: Literacy is a right, not a reward.
- Remember: You don’t get “ready” for reading by waiting; you get ready by reading. Engaging in shared reading builds emergent literacy skills, waiting does not.
- Myth #5: The “Button Press” Metric of Success
- Truth: Multi-modal communication (eyes, smiles, gestures) counts.
- Remember: Success is joint attention, not just a data point on a device. Communication comes in many forms; don’t pigeonhole it into needing to look one specific way.
The Mindset Shift: Engagement > Compliance
Do these myths sound familiar? Do they sound like something you have heard before?
You might be thinking, if these are all myths and there are better ways of doing shared reading, then why are these myths still being shared? That’s a really good question.
Myths are often rooted in “old-school” trains of thought and compliance-based therapy techniques. Things we used to think worked well. However, as we have continued to grow as a field and hopefully as professionals, listening to AAC users and learning from their experiences, we have learned to do better.
When we look at the world through a neurodiversity-affirming lens, our mindset quickly changes, and we see the importance of following the learner’s lead instead of the “rules” of society or a textbook.
Next steps
If these myths have been holding you back, you aren’t alone. After reading this, I encourage you to continue learning and asking questions if something doesn’t feel or seem “right”. Most of all, use these myths as motivation to start doing shared reading in a new way, a way that works and is fun for everyone! If you’re interested, I wrote a guide to help you navigate the ‘real life’ side of shared reading that you can check out here.
Before you go: Which of these myths was the hardest for you to unlearn? Let’s talk in the comments.
by Megan | Apr 27, 2026 | AAC, aided language input, aided language stimulation, blog, book recommendations, books, continuing education, core vocabulary, emergent literacy, fringe vocabulary, modeling, tips, training, Uncategorized
Shared Reading at Home: Simple Ways Parents Can Support AAC Without Pressure
Parenting can be exhausting. There is so much to do, and it often feels like time is running faster and faster each day. As a parent of an AAC user, this feeling may be amplified as you have even more on your plate. Between therapy, school, and daily life, “Shared Reading” can feel like just another chore on a long to-do list. Instead of adding more to your already overflowing plate, I want to reassure you that shared reading can easily fit into your daily routines, just as they are. Your home doesn’t have to look like a classroom; shared reading can be anywhere, from the backyard to the bathroom. Remember, the goal of shared reading is connection, not perfection. It doesn’t have to be a 20-minute session; it can be 2 minutes.
Reading in the “In-Between” Moments
Shared reading doesn’t only happen at a desk or a dedicated “circle time.” When we remember that the goal of shared reading is the connection between us and the learner, instead of the location or what it “looks” like, we can see that there are many different opportunities to engage in shared reading throughout the day and in various routines. Some actionable routine ideas that can be implemented into your already established routines include:
- Bath Time: Using waterproof books and modeling “wash,” “bubbles,” or “all clean.”
- Snack Time: Reading a cereal box or a simple book while eating.
- Bedtime: The traditional time, but keeping it low-pressure—focusing on cuddles and one or two core words like “sleep” or “turn.”
Don’t forget all the reading that can happen naturally while you are outside the home as well. Letters and words are everywhere, you can read:
- Labels at the grocery store
- Signs on a walk
- Logos of our favorite restaurants or places to go
Literacy is all around us, all the time!
Make Literacy Available, Not Mandatory
Have you ever been somewhere and find yourself picking up an item (or book), just because it is there and available? When we make books a part of the environment, something that is there “just because”, it helps make reading feel less forced and more natural. Children are more apt to initiate interactions with books if there is not a “demand” or “request” to use them. Leave some books out in various places, the car, by the toy bin, in a basket in the living room, at the kitchen table, even in the bathroom. I think you’ll be surprised how often you see your child gravitating towards the books, just because they can.
While we are talking about low demands surrounding reading, don’t feel pressure to read the whole book. It is perfectly ok for a child to read only one or two pages before moving onto the next, flips through the book quickly seemingly not reading, and/or move around the room while listening to you read. All of this counts as reading and should be celebrated!
Modeling Without Expectation
Now that we have access to books throughout the day and know that we are focusing on connection and embedding literacy into daily routines. Let’s talk about how to bring the AAC into this literacy party! I promise this one is easy and low demand too!
As a parent, your job is to show your child how they could use their AAC during shared reading, not to test. If you are not sure what to model, choose one word on the AAC device that matches something from the text or the illustrations on a page. Rest assured any word you pick is wonderful – there is no right or wrong word or words to model. After you model that word, wait for a moment, or don’t and keep reading. If your child doesn’t respond, that’s okay! They are engaged and connecting with you. They may still be “soaking it all in” and listening and not ready to respond yet. Don’t worry, the more they engage in shared reading, the more they will start to use their AAC too. Your model is the gift; their response is the bonus.
The Home Routine Planner
Need more ideas? Here are some specific examples of routines you can add a book to this week and core words that you could model during that routine:
Breakfast (or any meal time)
- Read: The Very Hungry Caterpillar
- Model: “eat”, “hungry”, “more”
Bathroom
- Model: “go”, “help” “all done” or “finished”, “on”, “off”
Play time
- Read: books about topics they enjoy – literally any book will work here
- Model: “turn”, “more”, “like”, “don’t like”, “again”, “look”
Car rides
- Read: Go Dog Go, Little Blue Truck series, Construction Site series
- Model: “go”, “fast”, “slow”, “turn”, “like”, “stop”
Bath time
- Read: Five Little Monkeys Jump in the Bath, waterproof books work great here too!
- Model: “in”, “on”, “off”, “like”, “more”, “out”
Bed time
- Read: books about topics the enjoy – literally any book will work her
- Model: “turn”, “more”, “like”, “don’t like”, “again”, “look”
Remember, you don’t have to do all of this at once, you can take it one routine at at time. And if modleing on the AAC in the routines seems overwhelming, know that you can stick to the “one word” rule: pick one core word for any routine and stick with it for the week. By the end of the week I can guarantee you that you will feel more comfortable modeling that word while reading and incorporating the AAC into shared reading overall!
If you’d like to learn more about shared reading and AAC users, my e-book, Shared Reading with AAC users, gives tangible examples and ideas on how can get started with shared reading with your AAC user.
Before you go, share in the comments: “What is the most ‘unusual’ place your child has ever asked you to read a book?”
by Megan | Apr 20, 2026 | AAC, aided language input, aided language stimulation, blog, book recommendations, books, continuing education, core vocabulary, emergent literacy, fringe vocabulary, modeling, Sensory, Sensory extension activities, tips, training
When “Just Reading” Isn’t Enough
You picked the book, prepped the materials and set up the environment and feel ready to start shared reading with your AAC user. But, when you get started, the learner keeps moving around, wants to stay on the same page, flip through pages quickly and closes the book again and again.
Before you take this as a sign that the learner is “checked out”, not interested or that you need to revamp your entire lesson, take a moment to reflect and think about why they are doing those things. I can guarantee you that they are not doing those things to make the shared reading experience more difficult. They are showing you what they need in order to keep their body calm and regulated and allow themselves to focus on the AAC device and/or story.
When we provide sensory supports for the learner during the shared reading experience, we not only help learners stay calm and regulated, we provide anchors that keep them present in the experience.
Proprioceptive & Vestibular Input (Moving while Reading)
For some learners, movement is a prerequisite for attention—they literally need to move their bodies to process what they hear. If your learner struggles to sit still, try these shifts:
- Adaptive Seating: Offer a bean bag, wiggle cushion, stool, or even a swing during storytime.
- Action Modeling: Incorporate movement into the story itself (e.g., “The bear is jumping! Let’s jump!”).
- Change of Scenery: Move to different parts of the room for different chapters or pages.
Remember: Just because a learner is moving doesn’t mean they aren’t listening. For many, the movement is exactly what allows them to stay tuned in.
Tactile Anchors (The “Touch-and-Feel” Beyond the Book)
Other learners may need or prefer additional tactile stimulation to get and keep them engaged during shared reading. Giving hands something to do often gives the brain more space to focus on language. Here are some ideas to increased tactile input during shared reading:
- Story Bins: Create “literacy kits” with items representing the story, like soft fur for a bear or a small cup for tea time.
- Themed Fidgets: Provide fidgets that match the book’s theme to keep the learner’s tactile system engaged with the topic.
Sensory Minimalism: Reducing the Noise
While we are thinking about the different things we might need to add to help make shared reading more sensory friendly, there are also some things we might need to decrease. While some learners might seek out visual and auditory input, too much of this type of input can also be overwhelming for some. Knowing our learners and their sensory preferences, allows us to reduce the “sensory noise” so that the AAC voice and the book can be the stars. Here are some actionable ideas you can use to help decrease the auditory and visual distractions:
- Lighting: Use a reading lamp instead of harsh overhead lights.
- Auditory: Minimizing background noise
- Visual: Using a dedicated “reading rug” to define the space.
The “Low-Tech” Sensory Kit
Before you start thinking that you need to go out and buy a bunch of new things to revamp your room, area, etc. take a look around your home or classroom, you probably have a lot of items you can use to support sensory needs during shared reading.
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- Comfort: Pillows, blankets, cushions
- Movement: rocking chairs, wiggle seats, trampoline, swing
- Tactile: Various textures and/or items that the learner can feel and interact with while reading – bonus if they are related to items within the story.
- Tactile: Preferred fidget items
- Movement: Different areas that you can move to throughout the reading if needed or a specific place that is your “reading area’.
- Lighting: dimmable lights or light from lamps instead of overhead lights
- Auditory: quiet space, headphones
The possibilities are endless!
Once you get started seeing things from a “sensory lens” you will come up with many more ideas that are personalized to your learner than I can list here. You are the expert on your learner. These tools simply help their environment match their needs.
If you are interested in learning even more about sensory supports and how they can make shared reading accessible and engaging and want to see some examples of sensory based literacy kits you can check them out in my store.
Before you go
Share with us in the comments: “What is your learner’s favorite sensory support during storytime?”
by Megan | Apr 13, 2026 | AAC, aided language input, aided language stimulation, blog, book recommendations, books, continuing education, core vocabulary, emergent literacy, fringe vocabulary, modeling, Sensory, tips, training, Uncategorized
The “Perfect Book” Trap
If you’ve ever found yourself looking at a bookshelf filled to the brim, feeling overwhelmed and wondering “Is this one right for shared reading with my AAC user?”, you are not alone.
Since “AAC friendly” isn’t a category that books are organized into, at the library or bookstore, we need to shift our way of thinking when browsing. Choosing a book isn’t about it being “AAC friendly”, it’s about it being engaging, interesting and fun for both you and the AAC user.
My goal for this post is to simplify the process of choosing a book to read with your AAC user and reassure you that there is no “perfect book”. Once you realize that, you can spend less time searching for books and more time reading them. Here are the three pillars I use to find books that naturally invite communication.
1. High Predictability
One of the first things I look for is how much predictability is built into the story. Predictability reduces the “work” a learner has to do to follow the story, which leaves more room in their brain to think about what they want to communicate.
This predictability usually looks like repetitive lines or a rhyme and rhythm that creates a natural pause for the AAC user to chime in. Think of classics like:
- “But the bear snores on…”
- “But he was still hungry.”
- “There was an old lady…”
- “Chicka Chicka Boom Boom”
Pro Tip: If you find a book you love that isn’t predictable, you can make it predictable. Simply choose a repeated comment, request, protest or sound effect to say on every single page. Suddenly, any book becomes accessible!
2. Core Word Capacity (Moving Beyond Nouns)
A common mistake is picking books just for labeling (like “dog,” “cat,” or “truck”). While nouns are great, Core Words (verbs and descriptors) are the words that give a learner power across their whole day.
I look for “Action-Heavy” or “Emotion-Heavy” books. For example:
- Go/Stop: Great for any book about transportation or animals moving.
- In/On/Under: Perfect for lift-the-flap books or “hide and seek” stories.
- Like/Don’t Like: Excellent for stories about picky eaters or characters with strong opinions.
Modeling “go” or “scared” gives your learner a word they can use in a hundred other situations outside of this specific book.
3. Visual Clarity & Sensory Considerations
Finally, consider the visual and sensory “load” of the book. This is highly personalized. Some readers may prefer real photographs, while others find very busy, detailed illustrations distracting.
The Sensory Anchor: If a book has different textures or interactive elements, it is almost always a “sure thing” for me. These elements act as an “
My “Three-Question” Quick Filter
Next time you are at the library or bookstore, use these three questions to find your next great read:
- Does it have a repeating phrase (or can I create one)?
- Can I model at least 3 core words easily and repeatedly?
- Is the topic actually interesting to the learner? (This is the most important rule!)
DOWNLOAD THE QUICK-FILTER CHEAT SHEET HERE
Start browsing confidently!
You are ready to start checking out books with confidence, knowing that engagement matters far more than “perfection.”
If you want to dive even deeper into the “how-to” of shared reading, my e-book, Shared Reading with AAC Users: A Neurodiversity-Affirming Guide, walks you through everything from setup to tracking progress.
One more thing before you go… share in the comments: What is the one book your learner requests over and over?
by Megan | Apr 6, 2026 | AAC, blog, book recommendations, core vocabulary, emergent literacy, fringe vocabulary, modeling, tips, training, Uncategorized
One of the questions I hear all the time
“But what am I supposed to model?”
This is one of the most common questions I hear when I share about shared reading, and it makes sense. As professionals, parents, and caregivers of AAC users, we want to be doing what feels helpful, meaningful and supportive.
There are a lot of different words you could model during shared reading with AAC users, and that can definitely feel overwhelming. The good news is: you don’t need to model everything, and there are no perfect words you have to choose in order for shared reading to be meaningful.
You do not need to model everything
When you think about shared reading, you may immediately think about reading the text on the page. However, if you have read my previous posts about what shared reading is, and how to start shared reading, you know that shared reading can look a lot of different ways.
Shared reading is not about covering all the text in the book or modeling every word. In fact, you do not even have to model words directly from the text. You can model words that describe the pictures, words that connect to something the learner notices, or a word or two you chose ahead of time that you can naturally repeat throughout the reading.
Remember that connection is the goal during every shared reading opportunity, so if modeling words feels overwhelming and starts to take away from the connection, it is ok to scale back the amount and variety of words you are modeling.
Start with a few core words
If you are just getting started with shared reading or reading a book that is less familiar to you, it might be helpful to read through the book ahead of time and jot down a few possible words on sticky notes. You can place the sticky notes right on the pages, so the words will be there when you are ready to read.
To keep things simple, focus on just a few core words.
While there are no “right” or “wrong” words to model, these are words I have found myself using across many different books:
- look
- turn
- more
- again
- go
- like
- stop
- big
- little
- funny
Starting with core vocabulary can be especially helpful because these words are flexible and naturally show up across routines, conversations, and books. That makes them easier to model consistently.
I also love modeling core vocabulary during shared reading because the words do not stay stuck inside the book. They can carry over into the child’s day, helping build connections between the story and real life.
You can also model fringe words that matter
While core vocabulary might be the go-to vocabulary to model during shared reading, don’t forget about fringe vocabulary.
Story-specific words and themes absolutely have a place in shared reading, especially when they connect to what catches the learner’s attention. That might include:
- animal names
- food
- characters
- actions from the story
- favorite objects or themes
Core words may show up more often, but fringe words can sometimes be the thing that helps build excitement and buy-in. If a fringe word is meaningful, interesting, or motivating, it is absolutely worth modeling.
Model comments more than questions
If you read my previous post about starting shared reading with AAC users, you know that shared reading is NOT about performance and is not a test.
It can be easy to default to questions such as:
- What is that?
- What color is it?
- What is he doing?
- Can you point to…?
But one powerful shift is to model comments more often than questions.
Some examples of comments you can model during shared reading include:
- I like that.
- That’s funny!
- Uh oh!
- Look!
- Let’s turn the page.
- Wow!
- There he goes.
- I see it.
Comments are a great way to draw attention to the illustrations, the action, and the emotional moments in a book. They often feel more natural, and they help build interest and connection without putting pressure on the learner to respond in a certain way.
Model feelings, actions, and surprises
Books are full of feelings, actions, reactions, surprises, and opinions. That is part of what makes them such a natural space for communication.
These kinds of words can be great choices to model during shared reading:
- happy
- sad
- funny
- wow
- uh oh
- go
- fall
- open
- like
- don’t like
Modeling these words in the context of a book makes language feel more natural, meaningful, and fun rather than like a drill.
Let the book guide you
By now, hopefully the pressure is starting to come down.
Not only do you not have to model every word in the book, you also do not have to model the exact same words every time. In fact, shared reading often feels more natural when you let the book guide what you model.
Some books lend themselves to movement and action words so you might model more verbs. Some books bring up strong feelings, so you may model emotion words. Other books naturally invite commenting, predicting, or repetitive modeling.
Whatever book you are reading, think about a few core and fringe words you might want to use, but do not feel like you have to stick to those alone. Trust your instincts and model what feels natural in the moment. That is often where the best connection happens.
Keep it natural
Nothing disrupts connection during shared reading faster than making it feel like a task that has to be completed.
We want shared reading to feel inviting and enjoyable so that learners will want to return to it again and again.
As you plan for shared reading, keep these ideas in mind:
- Model naturally, not constantly
- You do not have to model on every page
- The goal is connection and access
- Repeated, meaningful models matter more than frequency alone
- Follow the child’s interest when possible
And remember: there is no one way shared reading should look. There can be lots of movement, only a little reading, repetitive reading of favorite pages, or lots of page flipping. It all still counts.
You’ve got this!
You are ready to start shared reading right where you are.
Keep these ideas in mind:
- Start with a few words.
- Let the book help you.
- Comments count.
- Repeated words are powerful.
- You do not need to do it perfectly for it to be meaningful.
If you want more support in figuring out what to model, how to get started, and how to make shared reading more accessible, I go deeper into all of that in my e-book, Shared Reading with AAC Users: A Neurodiversity-Affirming Guide.
by Megan | Dec 16, 2023 | AAC, aided language input, aided language stimulation, blog, continuing education, core vocabulary, fringe vocabulary, modeling, prompt hierarchy
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