When people think about reading with a child, they often picture sitting close, looking at the pages together, listening quietly, answering questions, and making it through the whole book from beginning to end.
But for many AAC users, reading together may not look like that at all.
It may look like glancing at a page and then looking away. It may look like listening while jumping on the trampoline or running around the room. It may look like smiling at a favorite line, reaching toward a picture, vocalizing during a repeated phrase, activating a word on an augmentative and alternative communication (AAC) device, turning a page, repeatedly opening and closing the book, flipping quickly through the pages, or only reading one or two pages.
And all of that is still reading together; it all still counts.
All of these examples are just some of the reasons why I love talking about shared reading, and why it matters so much.
For AAC users, shared reading is about so much more than “reading the story.” It is an opportunity for connection, communication, language modeling, literacy learning, and participation in an experience that should belong to every child.
What is shared reading?
Shared reading is exactly what it sounds like: reading a book together in a way that invites connection, interaction, and participation.
It is not about asking a bunch of questions to quiz them on what they know, getting through every page, expecting one type of response, or any response at all. Instead, shared reading is a back-and-forth experience where the adult and child engage with the book together through pictures, words, AAC modeling, gestures, reactions, repeated lines, page turns, facial expressions, comments, and shared attention and enjoyment.
For AAC users, shared reading can be a powerful way to support both communication and literacy in a meaningful, accessible way.
My favorite part is that shared reading does not have to be rigid to be effective; in fact, it’s better if it’s not. It can be playful. It can be sensory-filled. It can be brief. It can be repeated. It can be adapted to meet the child where they are. It can look different from one child to the next.
That flexibility is part of what makes it so powerful.
Shared reading is more than story time
Shared reading is not a passive activity—something nice to do if there is time, or something mostly meant for entertainment.
Shared reading offers so much more than that.
It’s an opportunity to build language through meaningful language modeling.
It’s an opportunity to expose children to books, print, ideas, and vocabulary.
It’s an opportunity to create predictable routines around literacy.
It’s an opportunity to connect with another person around something enjoyable.
It’s an opportunity for a child to participate in literacy before they can read conventionally.
These are important opportunities for any child, but for AAC users, they are especially vital.
Shared reading creates access to language-rich, literacy-rich experiences right now, not later. It does not ask children to prove they are “ready” before they get invited in.
Shared reading is a literacy experience
Sometimes there is an unspoken belief that literacy instruction begins only after a child can attend for longer periods, identify letters, answer comprehension questions, or use AAC in a more conventional way.
But literacy does not begin only once a child “looks” ready.
Shared reading is a perfect way to introduce and build literacy from the very beginning.
When AAC users are included in shared reading experiences, they are being exposed to:
- books and print
- vocabulary and concepts
- story structure
- repeated language patterns
- connections between spoken language, AAC, pictures, and meaning
They are also learning something deeper: that books are for them too – and that message matters.
Shared reading helps lay the foundation for later reading and writing, but it continues to be valuable as learners continue to build their literacy skills. It gives children access to ideas, language, and literacy experiences before, during, and after conventional reading skills are in place.
Shared reading is also a communication experience
Another reason I love shared reading is that books are an incredibly natural place for AAC modeling.
During shared reading, we can model:
- core words like “look, turn, more, again, go, stop, like”
- fringe vocabulary connected to the story
- comments and reactions
- feelings
- actions
- opinions
- protests
And because favorite books are often read again and again, that language gets repeated in a meaningful context.
That repetition is powerful. It strengthens connections between the reader, the child, and the language being modeled. It also lowers pressure and builds familiarity. It gives learners more opportunities to see, hear, and experience language without needing to perform on cue.
Shared reading gives us another opportunity to use AAC in natural contexts and routines —not just for requesting, or answering questions, but noticing, commenting, enjoying, wondering, and most importantly, connecting.
Participation does not need to look one specific way
When thinking about what shared reading looks like, many of us may need to keep widening our lens.
Too often, shared reading is treated as successful only if a child:
- sits still
- looks at the book the whole time
- answers comprehension questions
- points to the “right” picture
- stays until the very end
But meaningful participation can look very different.
For AAC users, participation might mean:
- leaning in during a favorite part
- anticipating a repeated line
- smiling, laughing, or vocalizing
- turning the page, whether it is “time” to or not
- pressing a familiar word on AAC, even if it doesn’t seem relevant at the time
- choosing the same book again tomorrow
- protesting a part they do not like
- moving in and out of the interaction and/or area while still staying connected
These moments matter. They signal engagement and interest.
They are no less meaningful because they do not fit a narrow or traditional picture of what reading together is “supposed” to look like. In fact, when we recognize these moments as real participation, we make more room for authentic engagement and less room for compliance-based expectations.
Shared reading can support regulation and connection
Those moments are worth noticing.Shared reading is not only about literacy and language skills. It can also be a social and regulating experience.
There is something powerful about sitting with another person, sharing a familiar book, hearing a repeated phrase, anticipating what comes next, and being invited into the experience without pressure.
For many children, that rhythm and predictability can feel grounding.
This is why sensory supports matter. Positioning matters. Pacing matters. Emotional safety matters. Physical comfort matters.
Sometimes the most meaningful part of shared reading is not a correct answer or a measurable response. Sometimes it is that a child stays close a little longer. They relax into the routine. They re-engage after stepping away for a moment. They reach for the book again later. They smile at a favorite page.
Shared reading is a place to presume potential
One of the reasons I care so deeply about shared reading for AAC users is that it reflects something bigger: the belief that all children deserve access to rich literacy experiences.
Not later.
Not once they prove themselves.
Not once they meet a specific goal.
Now.
When we offer shared reading opportunities in thoughtful, accessible, supportive ways, we are sending a powerful message:
You belong here.
Books are for you.
Language is for you.
Literacy is for you.
That is the kind of message all children should receive over and over again.
You do not have to do this perfectly
If shared reading feels intimidating, I want to say this clearly: you do not have to do it perfectly for it to matter.
You do not need the perfect book.
You do not need the perfect setup.
You do not need a child to attend in one specific way.
You do not need to ask all the right questions.
You just need a starting point, a willingness to connect, and the belief that this experience is worthwhile.
Start with one book.
Read it again.
Model a few words.
Slow down.
Notice what the child notices.
Let the experience belong to both of you.
That is enough to begin.
Final thoughts
Shared reading matters for AAC users because it is not just story time; it’s so much more.
It is access.
It is connection.
It is communication.
It is literacy.
It is belonging.
And every child deserves that.
If shared reading with AAC users is something you want to feel more confident about, I created my e-book “Shared Reading with AAC Users: A Neurodiversity Affirming Guide” to help. Inside, I share practical, neurodiversity-affirming ways to make shared reading more accessible, meaningful, and enjoyable so you can feel empowered to start reading with your AAC users right away.
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